Etiquette: How to Approach and Book a Session With Me

I keep a mental list — not of favorites, but of the men who never hear back from me again. It's built early, usually before anyone's even in the room. Here's how to stay off it.

Before you apply

• Read the About section on my site first. It answers most of what people ask me anyway — asking again tells me you don't follow instructions.

• Booking is by application, not a DM. You'll lodge it and pay the consideration tribute — this is separate from the session price and isn't included in it.

• I don't do incalls. You book the hotel.

Your application

Your first message to Me is the application — fill it out and leave it there rather than messaging separately. It's also how I get to know your kinks, experience, and boundaries before we ever meet, so be specific and honest in it. Vague is harder to work with than clear.

Screening

• Not optional. Show me your ID when you arrive, or send it ahead of time — your choice.

• What you share stays confidential. You're paying, in part, for my discretion, and I take that seriously in both directions.

What this is — and isn't

Domination is a BDSM experience, not an intercourse booking. There is no sexual or naked service. If that's what you're after, this isn't the right booking.

Boundaries

• Whatever's negotiated beforehand is fixed for that session — don't test it mid-scene.

• A safe word is a stop signal, not a negotiating tactic. It's always honored.

• No touching without permission, no sexualizing the session, no filming without prior consent.

• Something new occurs to you? Raise it before the session, not during.

• Booking requires a 25% deposit of the total session price. It's non-refundable if you cancel. You can reschedule up to 72 hours before the session — not later than that.

On the day

• A consent form gets signed on location before we begin.

• Bring cash for the session.

• No negotiating rate or extending time once you're there.

After

• Tips are always welcome, never expected.

• A brief thank-you is fine; repeated personal messages are not.

• Want to rebook? Tribute, message and find a date.

None of this is etiquette for its own sake. Domination is skilled labor, and every rule here exists because someone once failed to respect it. Treating my time and expertise seriously isn't a courtesy. It's the entry fee.